Mom's only care about their own status

Have they  ever told you  once that your  a embarrassment ? My mom sure did. It frustrates me more when she says that I'm  weak and defenseless    when I'm  not . She says  that she understand  me, but she doesn't .  She never fought  for  her friends  and  I  had . I'm  always  different .  I'm  sure  I'm  not  her daughter .  I look  nothing  like  her,my personality  is different  and unique .  She wants  to  break down all individuality . She is the  worst.